Do Couples Pick The Wedding Rings Together?
June 18, 2025 / Bridal & Dress Jewellery, Jewellery Buying Guide, Wedding Rings

The simple answer is yes. A lot of couples want to experience getting their wedding ring together, creating a beautiful moment as special as the proposal. While the engagement ring tends to be a surprise, the wedding ring is not so much of a surprise.
Traditionally, the wedding band was a gift from the families, especially if there was a dowry involved. But over time, as humans have evolved, picking out the wedding ring for both partners has become a joint effort.
Wedding bands can often get overlooked or made as an afterthought. But don’t be fooled, the wedding ring is just as important as the engagement ring. Do you want to match with your partner? Will the band match your engagement ring? Does the ring setting allow for the type of wedding ring I want? These are all questions that are commonly asked when left too late to deign your wedding ring.
At Larsen Jewellery, we have a belief that purchasing your wedding ring should be just as special as buying your engagement ring. This was the concept that was the foundation for Larsen Jewellery, and thus the Wedding Ring Experience was created. Here, you and your partner can design and craft your wedding bands from scratch right at the studio. An experience that very few studios do here in Australia.
But other than building your rings together, what are the main considerations couples think about when shopping together for their wedding rings?
- Style Harmony: Wedding rings represent the couple’s commitment and are worn daily. Choosing them together ensures both parties find rings that reflect their personal style and preferences.
- Budget Considerations: Wedding planning costs can add up, and the rings are a big part of that. Though traditionally the engagement ring gets most of the attention, couples are now allocating a significant budget to their wedding rings. Shopping together allows you to be open and honest about your finances and find options that suit you both.
- Lifestyle Compatibility: More and more couples are considering their lifestyles when choosing wedding rings. If you work with your hands or play a lot of sports, you’ll want a durable, low-profile ring. This is something you and your partner can discuss together to ensure your rings fit seamlessly into your lives.
- Metal Choice: From classic gold to modern platinum, the metal you choose for your wedding ring is a big decision. Consider factors like durability, maintenance, and whether you have any metal allergies.
- Stone Settings: While traditionally wedding rings were plain bands, many couples now opt for rings with stones. If you like diamonds or other gemstones, you’ll want to discuss the setting style, size, and cut with your partner.
- Comfort and Fit: You’ll be wearing your wedding ring every day, so comfort is key. When shopping together, you can both try on different styles and widths to find a ring that feels perfect on your finger.
- Ethical Sourcing: For many couples, it’s important to choose wedding rings that are ethically sourced and environmentally responsible. When shopping together, you can research jewellers who prioritise sustainable practices.
Choosing your wedding rings together is a significant and memorable step in your journey as a couple. It’s a chance to express your individual styles, celebrate your shared commitment, and find the perfect symbols of your love that you’ll cherish for a lifetime. So if you’re in need of wedding ring jewellery, reach out to one of our studios today in Sydney, Melbourne or Brisbane.